“Don’t give up. Don’t lose hope. Don’t sell out.” Christopher Reeve
Am I the only one seemingly imprisoned in some vile and eerie state of surrealism where Sellouts and Sycophants have ensnared, outmaneuvered and subjugated the custodians of common sense?
It’s a field day for eunuchs, quislings and the narcissistic.
Now, we all need financial relief and recognition for a job well done is greatly appreciated. Plus, it’s getting cold. So, there is immediate need for making provision for winter’s unrelenting disposition. We do what we need to do.
But, what the hell is going on? It seems what’s wrong is right and what’s right is meaningless. It’s as if some ominous pathogen has quietly but deliberately infected our basic sensibilities and caused a seismic shift in what is considered basic Values.
We all know the adage, “the squeaky wheel gets the grease.” Sure, that’s true. But, volume is an imprecise assessment of substance.
This is not a political rant. In fact, may a pox befall most elected officials. Generally speaking they are Sellouts and Sycopchants beholden only to “others.” Most times, the agenda of “others” is in sharp contrast with the concerns directly affecting you and me.
Politicians can be so megalomaniacal that it puts into question their mental soundness.
Perhaps I’m wrong but when it comes to most affairs of state, the only winner is the holder of the cards in a game of “3 card monty.” And, guess what? That ain’t us.
Enough said on that front, but it does shine the light on Sellouts and Sycophants. They will do all they can for the sake of power and control. It’s not just personal power. It’s the capacity of lording over others.
It reminds me of the old Show Biz line, “Enough about me. Let’s talk about my show.”
Look, we all need a paycheck and life in the early 21st Century isn’t all angel cake and tinker bell on gossamer wings. So, it is imperative we make mid course corrections and then move on so we’re not left behind. .
Unfortunately, there are those who inflict as much pain as possible on others. I’m not a psychiatrist by any definition of the word but life experience and a bit of research have shown me that there are individuals who relish “shaddenfreude.” Shaddenfreude means gloating with glee over the gloom or discomfort of others. These are people who like to manipulate and inflict distress upon others. Call it whatever you want, but it is sadistic in nature.
These people are ingrates. They present themselves as better and smarter than most of humanity. Privilege is due them. They are the “squeaky wheels” driven by an abundance of arrogance and a delusional sense of entitlement.
What they don’t realize is something once said by Ralph Waldo Emerson: “What you do speaks so loudly that I cannot hear what you say.” Actions really do speak louder than words.
In reality, the crux of the matter is most of these people have very little self-regard. In fact, they use their arrogance as a shield. The shield pushes away others so their deceit is secure and their fraud remains undetected.
However, they live in fear of being “found out.” They can’t bear the thought of being discovered for whom they really are. That’s why they are so thin skinned. They can’t take criticism.
And, since they can’t control their own lives, they set out to control the lives of others.
That’s the real issue: Control.
Years ago, in my DJ days, there was a Radio Manager who was considered a programming genius but a total S.O.B. He put the fear of god into those who worked for him. He made life miserable for many people in Radio.
Jump cut 20 years later and I had the chance to meet him. He turned out to be a really great guy and was very helpful to me. In our time together, he was totally honest and explained why he took on that S.O.B persona. The reason: He didn’t want anyone knowing how little he thought he knew, so his safety net was total control.
Those of us over the age of 50 know a phony when we see one. We still have to deal with them, especially in a professional work setting. But, it doesn’t mean emulating their controlling demeanor.
People who have no control over their own lives have a tendency of wanting to dominate the lives of others. Psychiatrists refer to it as Displacement. Since they can’t control their lives, they look for a source outside themselves to control.
On the other hand, those who have self-control have little or no interest in dictating how others should live and breathe. They will guide and mentor. In the work place, they can even be rough at times, but they will be fair. They are confident enough in their own talents and abilities. Domination is a classification so remote from any personal character analysis. .
These are uncertain times and, in order to get ahead, it’s very easy to mimic the behavior of Sellouts and Sycophants. We all want more. And, many of us are panning for gold by exploring and considering the latest secrets to success. Sometimes, it’s all too tempting to adapt behavior alien to our core values.
And, by doing so, we take on the characteristics of what we find so alien. We assume the identity and behavior of a sellout and sycophant. And, that’s crazy. It’s not who we are.
Here’s a warning: Be careful. Replicating fabricated identities, you do so at your own peril.
You see, living a lie means a lack of” Ease.” And, when taken out of a position of ” Ease”, it creates an environment ripe for the incubation of Infection and Disease.
Now, let me take this one step further. We know when we are out of sorts. We feel it when we see it. The same holds true even in the most unexpected sources.
In the book, “The Hidden Messages in Water”, Author/Photographer Masaru Emoto took pictures of ice crystals.
So, what’s significant about that?
Well, through highly advanced micro-photography, Emoto captured amazing transformations. He observed when someone with a positive disposition approached the ice crystals while being photographed, the configuration of the crystals turned totally white and beautifully shaped.
However, when someone troubled and negative came within proximity to the crystals, they turned ugly, shapeless and grey. Check out those pictures in Emoto’s book. They are amazing.
So, if something as minute as ice crystals can be affected by positive and negative energies, then you must consider how Sellouts and Sycophants influence you. Their effect can be be nothing short of amazing or destructive.
What I’m saying is don’t allow yourself to be seduced and drawn into a vortex of ethical ambivalence.
Until proven otherwise, don’t jump to mirror the appearance of strength. It might be hiding a host of inadequacies.
Look, we all need a paycheck and life in the early 21st Century isn’t all angel cake and tinker bell on gossamer wings. In life, we all make certain realignments but then move on.
But, there are those who inflict as much pain as possible on others. I’m not a psychiatrist by any measure of the word but life experience and a bit of research show that there are individuals who relish “shaddenfreude.” Schaddenfreude means gloating with glee over the gloom or discomfort of others. These control freaks manipulate and inflict hardship on others. Psychologists refer to it as a form of displacement. It is limiting, debilitating and sadistic in nature.
These are strange and unsettling times in which we live. It’s incumbent upon each and every one of us to be true to our own moral and value compass. Today, it’s our safety net in today’s 3 ring Circus that we call life.
We can start by not ceding Control of our lives to Sellouts and Sycophants. If they can’t control their own lives, what the Hell are they doing trying to run ours.
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